“Socialization” should be an anti essentialist analytic which describes the ways in which social norms are not pre-social but dependent on a variety of institutions such as the family to produce gendered, raced, class, etc subjects. Meaning that this process could also be disrupted and changed, allowing for new social norms and thus new behaviors to arise.
But terfs believe the behavior of men under patriarchy to be unchangeable, pre-social and biological. But none of that is destiny - it’s the present political reality and can be challenged and replaced. There’s nothing innate about men that make them violent or misogynist. Our present political, economic and social institutions are what produces that behavior. None of that is destiny.
(via spaffy-jimble)













